Recognize her behavior
If you don’t know her very well, you might mistake her appearance as a rejection. Some people just have certain quirks. It doesn’t always mean that she isn’t interested. Notice if she smiles when you talk to her, or if she laughs at things you say.
- Don’t mistake laughing with you with laughing at you.
Prick the Change
Girls may not be easy to understand but they can be very understanding. It’s not easy to find the right girl for you and even less easier to get her to like you. Despite the rejection you shouldn’t lose hope and keep trying to get her to change her mind.
Rejection may be very disheartening but the last you should do after a rejection is to quit. If you stop trying then you ensure that you will never get her to like you the way you have wanted to.
Become friends with her. Treat her like a good friend without ever making her feel uncomfortable around you. With time, she may share her number with you. Text her and call her as much as she calls you. Spend more time with her.
Girls like being loved and cared. Care for her all the time. Know her likes and dislikes and be around her whenever she may need you. She will start to feel safe when you are around and this may even make her to like you.
Respect her and the people that are close to her. A girl may find it very hard to like someone who doesn’t respect people around her, especially her. Treat her nicely all the time and then you can expect her to like you.
Be Funny & Be flexible
A good way for this girl to recognize what a good catch you are is to be funny. Telling knock knock jokes may not work. Showcase your natural humor when she is nearby. Don’t be offensive and tell inappropriate jokes. She could get offended or creeped out by this.
Girls often like people who have good sense of humor. If you can make her laugh and have some good time, she will definitely like it. However, you must understand your limits and never indulge in any sort of fun that may sound offensive. Continue being yourself, but if there are certain thoughts you have that might be rude, keep them to yourself. There’s always some give and take, so make sure you’re not being a jerk. Girls like it when you show that you can be chill and enjoy yourself no matter what you’re doing
As you already are friends with her you will get many chances to make her feel safe with your presence. Treat her like everything. Be protective and don’t let anyone be horrible to her. She will eventually notice your care. However, always have minimum expectations and be patient.
Make eye contact
Creating sexual tension with eye contact can create a healthy attraction. Never stare at a girl. This is just a rude thing to do. Instead make short glances at her and look at her eyes. Hopefully she’ll meet your eye contact and then turn away. Continue this until you both hold eye contact longer than the previous time.
Girls don’t like guys who are pretending to be someone else. They’ll like you for you. If you were pretending to be someone else before, then just be yourself. She might like you if you relax and stop trying to change for other people.
Recognize the player
Sometimes a girl enjoy playing with a guys heart, and sometimes it’s a flirting tactic. Even though she says she doesn’t like you, she might want you to try harder to get her attention. The key is to become better friends with her and spend more time together. You’ll know her real intentions by her body language and the vibes she’s sending.
Once you’ve become a little bit closer with this girl, you can try again. You have to vary the way you present yourself to her. She may not of liked what you said to her the first time. If she says no or looks really uncomfortable, don’t force it. Be honest to her.
Know her type.
Being friends with her will give you access to what she’s looking for in a guy. You could even casually ask her if she thinks Jim Smith is attractive, and then find out why. Talking about her attraction to other boys may remind her of your feelings.
Stay on her good side
If she has put you in the friend zone, you have one thing going for you: she doesn’t mind being around you. Don’t mess this up by annoying her and pestering her for a romantic date. This will take time if it’s even possible.
Talking to a Stranger
Observe this girl. Don’t stalk her to find out what she is doing. Casually look for clues when she is nearby. Notice if she is reading a book whenever you see her. Observe what she is wearing. Does she like wearing a Sublime t-shirt?
- Look her up on social media. Everyone stalks each other on social media sites, so you don’t need to feel guilty about doing it. Look at her interests!
Hold a conversation
Try to strike up a natural conversation about something. This can be hard because you are trying to appear casual when you may not feel casual. Wait for a good opportunity like waiting for an elevator or stuck waiting for the bus. These are good places to share a thought.
- You are shooting for her to look at you and actually talk to you.
- Talk about an easy topic like the weather or a recent celebrity’s antics.